loveontheroxx:

janetmock:

I recently picked up some in-flight reading material, which included Jet magazine’s latest issue (April 29, 2013) - a special report on the invisibility of missing black children. 
While reading, I was stunned to see that the news section of the magazine not only covered trans folks and restroom use, but also a story from a 29-year-old trans woman of color named Brandy Ahzionae.
In the one-page profile (on page 15), Brandy opens up about her journey towards womanhood, about having to leave home due to a lack of acceptance of her gender, about “turn[ing] to the streets,” about using drugs and partying as a means to cope and about daring to survive this hostile world by engaging in the sex trade. 
“My life shifted when I met a group of fellow trans sisters who provided love I’d never felt before,” Brandi says. “They made me feel comfortable about fully transitioning.”
Never underestimate the transformative power of sisterhood. We need more spaces dedicated to collective growth, learning and pro-sisterhood intent.
To have this story featured in a legendary black publication, one read by many black households, is a feat. When our stories are told not only in “mainstream press” (which is way far behind) and by the “LGBT mainstream” (which is also failing us and trans and queer folk of color miserably), but in the publications read by communities of color, true acceptance and growth occurs.
We hear often about the violent exiling of trans women of color, we hear about our vulnerability when it comes to HIV/AIDS, homelessness, sex work and sex trade, lack of employment, housing, shelter and education. But what we do not hear often is the stories and the voices of black trans women like Brandi, like Kiara St. James and Tanya Walker and numerous other sisters of color. My voice, Laverne Cox’s voice, Isis King’s voice is not enough.
I applaud you, my dear sister Brandi, for daring to be seen, for sharing your story with all of us, for carrying the torch and legacy of active resistance and survival that trans women of color have long uplifted. I also applaud the editors of Jet for recognizing Brandi’s resilience and brilliance - and embracing trans women as your sisters and daughters too.
Now we must call on the rest of our communities to do this embracing work and ignite change for all of our sisters.

Go Jet! <3

loveontheroxx:

janetmock:

I recently picked up some in-flight reading material, which included Jet magazine’s latest issue (April 29, 2013) - a special report on the invisibility of missing black children

While reading, I was stunned to see that the news section of the magazine not only covered trans folks and restroom use, but also a story from a 29-year-old trans woman of color named Brandy Ahzionae.

In the one-page profile (on page 15), Brandy opens up about her journey towards womanhood, about having to leave home due to a lack of acceptance of her gender, about “turn[ing] to the streets,” about using drugs and partying as a means to cope and about daring to survive this hostile world by engaging in the sex trade. 

“My life shifted when I met a group of fellow trans sisters who provided love I’d never felt before,” Brandi says. “They made me feel comfortable about fully transitioning.”

Never underestimate the transformative power of sisterhood. We need more spaces dedicated to collective growth, learning and pro-sisterhood intent.

To have this story featured in a legendary black publication, one read by many black households, is a feat. When our stories are told not only in “mainstream press” (which is way far behind) and by the “LGBT mainstream” (which is also failing us and trans and queer folk of color miserably), but in the publications read by communities of color, true acceptance and growth occurs.

We hear often about the violent exiling of trans women of color, we hear about our vulnerability when it comes to HIV/AIDS, homelessness, sex work and sex trade, lack of employment, housing, shelter and education. But what we do not hear often is the stories and the voices of black trans women like Brandi, like Kiara St. James and Tanya Walker and numerous other sisters of color. My voice, Laverne Cox’s voice, Isis King’s voice is not enough.

I applaud you, my dear sister Brandi, for daring to be seen, for sharing your story with all of us, for carrying the torch and legacy of active resistance and survival that trans women of color have long uplifted. I also applaud the editors of Jet for recognizing Brandi’s resilience and brilliance - and embracing trans women as your sisters and daughters too.

Now we must call on the rest of our communities to do this embracing work and ignite change for all of our sisters.

Go Jet! <3

loveameliarose:

deviant-emma:

Before and after … 
I get all the time “HRT was miracle on you”. Well, let me tell you that’s not the case. HRT is like 30%. The rest is&#160;:
1. A good diet&#160;: I went from 220 lb 1 year before HRT to 138 lb when I was in my 3rd month HRT (I’m 5.97 ft height). That means running a lot, no sugar, no alcohol, no smoking and for me, no meat&#160;!
2. I started to think like a woman all the time. No more I’m not there yet … I was a woman from day 1 of my HRT. Didn’t cared about people thinking I was walking a little bit feminine or what a hell happened to “his” voice. I started to act like ME without restriction. No one bothered me or anything … and I was right to do that cause I was happier.
3. I started to prepare my wardrobe… I started to search and find my style. 
4. I started to learn make-up (Youtube was my friend. Search “Wayne Goss - Makeup artist”. I learned a lot from him). I started by ordering cheap makeup&#160;: search elf (or eyeslipsface ) on google.
5. I trained my voice everyday without exception. I recorded myself at least once a day and I started to search any information about that (youtube is your friend)
6. I was patient and waited to be more feminine before going full-time (it was in my 5th month). I was depressed a lot because of my HRT and I didn’t wanted to have more to deal with … so I went full-time only when I felt I was ready.
If you feel that you’re not there yet it means that you have to do more :-) Don’t be harsh with yourself but do the right things … and stick to the plan :-)
Big hugs everyone and have a smooth and happy transition.

Congratulations Emma! You’re an inspiration to us all. :)

loveameliarose:

deviant-emma:

Before and after … 

I get all the time “HRT was miracle on you”. Well, let me tell you that’s not the case. HRT is like 30%. The rest is :

1. A good diet : I went from 220 lb 1 year before HRT to 138 lb when I was in my 3rd month HRT (I’m 5.97 ft height). That means running a lot, no sugar, no alcohol, no smoking and for me, no meat !

2. I started to think like a woman all the time. No more I’m not there yet … I was a woman from day 1 of my HRT. Didn’t cared about people thinking I was walking a little bit feminine or what a hell happened to “his” voice. I started to act like ME without restriction. No one bothered me or anything … and I was right to do that cause I was happier.

3. I started to prepare my wardrobe… I started to search and find my style. 

4. I started to learn make-up (Youtube was my friend. Search “Wayne Goss - Makeup artist”. I learned a lot from him). I started by ordering cheap makeup : search elf (or eyeslipsface ) on google.

5. I trained my voice everyday without exception. I recorded myself at least once a day and I started to search any information about that (youtube is your friend)

6. I was patient and waited to be more feminine before going full-time (it was in my 5th month). I was depressed a lot because of my HRT and I didn’t wanted to have more to deal with … so I went full-time only when I felt I was ready.

If you feel that you’re not there yet it means that you have to do more :-) Don’t be harsh with yourself but do the right things … and stick to the plan :-)

Big hugs everyone and have a smooth and happy transition.

Congratulations Emma! You’re an inspiration to us all. :)

yanilavigne:

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Like for people to text me back 90% of the time

yanilavigne:

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Like for people to text me back 90% of the time

I love how the world gives you shit for not being able to support yourself on your own when you’re 20

Like right now I’m working at just over minimum wage and I have to pay my rent, pay for food, pay for gas, pay for my car repairs, pay for college, AND start funding my transition

Like seriously, what the fuck? Mom I don’t care that you moved out when you were 20 you worked at a fucking hospital and it was 1972 I can guarantee you houses were fucking cheaper and did you have to pour a ton of money into rebuilding your wardrobe from the ground up and pay for hormones and gender therapy and defy every law of gender that society has put in place just to feel comfortable in your own skin which by the way is also life threatening?

Yeah, I didn’t think so.


Fuck you.

nuditea:

nemusou:

welcome to Liv’s Happy Superfun Time Trans*/Queer Resource Giveaway!!! i’ve (almost) reached 400 followers and i figured i should do something useful with my blog if that many people are watching me have mental break downs and reblog pokemon and bubbline all day. giveaway ends June 15th, 2013!!
rules!!!!
don’t have to be following me i don’t really care all that much but it’d be nice if you want to/like my blog
sorry guys but this is for PEOPLE WHO IDENTIFY AS TRANSGENDER*/GENDERQUEER/AGENDERED/SOME VARIATION OF GENDER THAT IS NOT!!! CISGENDER! i’m giving away resources for those who may not have proper access.i’d be really happy if you reblog as a signal boost but make sure you COMMENT on it saying “signal boost” or something like that so that i know you’re not reblogging it for the actual giveaway
1 like and 1 reblog and that’ll be counted as 2 entries but that’s it!! i don’t think it counts as any more if you do it more than once so
have to have a valid address or po box or somewhere safe that i can send you your shit. i’m willing to ship/mail just about anywhere
don’t be an asshole!! that’s about it for rules
what you’ll win!!!
100$ worth of any resources you might need as a trans* individual!! i’ll buy you a binder, bra inserts, packer or stp, makeup, clothes, i’ll send money for hormones shots, anything worth 100$ that you might need. we’ll message back and forth first to see what you need as a unique awesome individual!!
also as a special bonus, i’m a musician so i’ll write a song for you and post it on my youtube channel! i’ll write it about anything you want (you, your friend, your lover, your pet, your favourite tv show, whatever you want)
so yeah!! happy reblogging~*~*~ if you have any questions please ask me!!

nuditea:

nemusou:

welcome to Liv’s Happy Superfun Time Trans*/Queer Resource Giveaway!!! i’ve (almost) reached 400 followers and i figured i should do something useful with my blog if that many people are watching me have mental break downs and reblog pokemon and bubbline all day. giveaway ends June 15th, 2013!!

rules!!!!

  • don’t have to be following me i don’t really care all that much but it’d be nice if you want to/like my blog
  • sorry guys but this is for PEOPLE WHO IDENTIFY AS TRANSGENDER*/GENDERQUEER/AGENDERED/SOME VARIATION OF GENDER THAT IS NOT!!! CISGENDER! i’m giving away resources for those who may not have proper access.i’d be really happy if you reblog as a signal boost but make sure you COMMENT on it saying “signal boost” or something like that so that i know you’re not reblogging it for the actual giveaway
  • 1 like and 1 reblog and that’ll be counted as 2 entries but that’s it!! i don’t think it counts as any more if you do it more than once so
  • have to have a valid address or po box or somewhere safe that i can send you your shit. i’m willing to ship/mail just about anywhere
  • don’t be an asshole!! that’s about it for rules

what you’ll win!!!

  • 100$ worth of any resources you might need as a trans* individual!! i’ll buy you a binder, bra inserts, packer or stp, makeup, clothes, i’ll send money for hormones shots, anything worth 100$ that you might need. we’ll message back and forth first to see what you need as a unique awesome individual!!
  • also as a special bonus, i’m a musician so i’ll write a song for you and post it on my youtube channel! i’ll write it about anything you want (you, your friend, your lover, your pet, your favourite tv show, whatever you want)

so yeah!! happy reblogging~*~*~ if you have any questions please ask me!!

So my manager just triggered an anxiety attack for me like an hour ago and then made a ton of mistakes that I had to clean up while wanting to tear my skin off and now I’m just sitting in the corner and shaking but at least today is over in some random number of minutes whenever 10 pm is

tayalldaynyc:

theuppitynegras:

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tayalldaynyc:

theuppitynegras:

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lessaselig:

I made a flippy magnet so my brother and i know if the other fed the cat. It says “im hungry for real!” Or “im a lying bastard.” …usually charlie cat is a lying bastard and gets fed twice.

Oh my god I should do this with my mom

lessaselig:

I made a flippy magnet so my brother and i know if the other fed the cat. It says “im hungry for real!” Or “im a lying bastard.” …usually charlie cat is a lying bastard and gets fed twice.

Oh my god I should do this with my mom

oracularity:

the most accurate depiction of most mens rights activists i’ve ever seen

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